CumpleGero
Monday, March 14, 2011
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wish you were not afraid to utter the name of my son. It is important and need to hear your name. If I cry or get emotional if we talk about my son, I would like to know that not because I have been hurt, in fact, the departure of my child that has caused my tears. Have allowed me to mourn and thank you. The explosion of tears and emotion are healthy. I would like to get to your house and still see the photos, crafts and other souvenirs of my son. I will have emotional highs and lows, ups and downs. I wish you a great day when you do not think that my pain is gone or if I have a bad day I need psychiatric treatment. I wish you knew that the departure of a child is unlike any other loss and should be viewed from another point of view. It is the greatest tragedy and I would not compare it with the departure of a parent, spouse or pet. The loss of a child is not contagious so I would not flee from me. I wish you knew that all the reactions "exaggerated" pain you see in me are normal. Depression, anger, frustration, hopelessness and the questioning of values \u200b\u200band beliefs are to be expected after the departure of a child, over time these feelings will be utterly transformed. Wish you would not expect that my pain will last 6 months. The first years will be too traumatic for us. I wish you understood the physical reaction of my pain, I can gain or lose weight, sleep all day or do not, develop some kind of disease or I become accident-prone product of my pain. Our son's birthday, the anniversary of their departure dates and holidays are terrible for us. I wish we might say that our son has this. If we are quiet or withdrawn, know that we are thinking of our son, do not try to force us to be happy. It is normal and good that most of us reexamine our faith, values \u200b\u200band beliefs after losing a child. We will ask questions about things that have taught us throughout our lives and faith and hope reach to a new understanding with our God. I wish you would allow me to question my religion without making me feel guilty. I wish you would not offer tranquilizers. These are temporary remedies and the only way we can overcome the pain is experienced. I can not heal if you do not feel the wound. I wish you to understand that the pain changes people. I'm not the same person I was before the departure of my son and never will be. If you expect to be the same as before you frustrated. I am a new creature with new thoughts, dreams, aspirations, values \u200b\u200band beliefs. Please try to meet the new me, maybe even like it. Pistarini
mother Patricia "Gero" Geronimo Puenzo
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